Are You Shying Away From Sex Due to Pain?
Sure, you cannot expect your sex life to be the same as it was at the beginning of your relationship all the time, however, a good sex life that is satisfying for both of you is something you should strive to have. Compromis is necessary because usually, your libido is not the same as your partner’s. But, you probably know about this and we know that you are trying as hard as you can in order to have a sex life that you want and deserve to have. Unfortunately, there is not much you can do if pain occurs.
Painful sex is a problem that needs to be solved. Sex should be something you want to do, something that is good for both you and your partner. And if you experience pain during intercourse, it is not normal. And you should definitely do something about it! Well, something in order to stop the pain. And we do not mean not having sex because that is obviously not the right solution.
It is completely understandable that you probably do not like talking about it, but perhaps it might be worth doing some research. Ask your girlfriends whether they have or had a similar problem. I would also suggest searching the web, however, it usually does more harm than good. Especially, if you are that kind of person who gets scared easily and always thinks of the worst possible reason of the pain. Otherwise, just do it! And also, visit your doctor. However, before you do it, you should take some time to investigate the pain. You need to know when, where and how it hurts in order to figure out what the cause is.
Just do something about it. You need to learn to communicate about this issue. Tell your doctor precisely what your problem is and make sure that something is done in order to help you deal with it. Sex should not be torture for you. Do not let the pain ruin your sex life.
And, be sure to talk to your boyfriend about it. You do not want them to think that you do not want to have sex with them. Your partner will give you the support you need!