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Why Do We Blame The Other Woman?

If your partner cheated on you, who would you blame? Him or the woman he cheated on you with? Well, this is a tough question, but I bet that you know the answer. The woman. Well, somehow, although you try, you cannot stop hating her. And you know that it actually is not her fault, right?

Anyway, here are some reasons why we keep blaming the woman:

  1. It is easier to blame her for seducing your partner than admiting the fact that he totally failed you.
  2. Somehow, we always assume that men cheat. And we feel betrayed by another woman who is not strong enough to resist the temptation.
  3. And we sometimes simply think that it is her fault because she is the one who was seducing him and who did not let him be although he tried to stop her.

Well, how often is this actually true? When you think about it, the only person who deserves to be hated is your boyfriend or husband because he broke his promise, right?